The Apt.

Sept. 12, 2009
apartment
We live in a 400 sq. ft. apartment. Between the two of us and all of our wedding presents we are quickly running out of space. We realized this, and the Hub decided to put the apartment on the market. About a month before our wedding we found a buyer. So on top of everything else we had going on with the wedding, we then threw an apartment sale into the mix
We were both on the same page for a while – then something happened and I stayed on one page while my hubby flew about 60 pages backward. We had discussed a one bedroom apartment maybe in Tribeca or Gramercy, which was pretty much ideal for me, since we were both sick of sharing a this tiny space. Then one day the Hub woke up and decided that it was ideal for us to live in a studio about the same size as our current place. This was not what I had in mind at all. His studio quickly morphed into living at his family’s beach house for a month, complete with a two plus hour commute in traffic, no heat, and sparsely furnished. Not to mention that his family comes down on the weekend. Not exactly the way I though we would be starting off our marriage. So now we are at the ultimate impasse. He wants us to be nomads living in a few different places for the next month, and me being open to living with other people, but not wanting to turn down a good apartment if we find one.

How do I compromise with someone who is unwilling to budge an inch, and who is constantly changing his mind, I never know what he is going to come up with next. Not to mention it make it incredibly hard for me to make any sort of future plans regarding our living situation. And more importantly where is mini elliptical going to live while we are nomadic herding around the tri-state area???
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September 13, 2009. Uncategorized.

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